Stephen Wise Free Synagogue has officially named Miriam Kalmar the new director of its Early Childhood Center after an extensive national search.
Miriam served as the ECC’s assistant director for 11 years under former director Lori Schneider, who retired in June 2018, and as interim ECC director since then.
“Although Miriam was a natural choice to take over after Lori retired, we wanted to be sure that we were making the best possible decision for our school,” said Senior Rabbi Ammiel Hirsch. “Stephen Wise Free Synagogue appointed a formal search committee, retained a respected consulting firm, and considered scores of candidates from across the country. There is no one more qualified, dedicated, and passionate than Miriam to take the ECC to new heights. May she go from strength to strength.”
A lifelong Jewish educator who cherishes the opportunity to teach children and is a true believer in the Reggio-Emilia educational philosophy, Miriam holds a bachelor’s from Yeshiva University and earned her master’s in early childhood and elementary education from Bank Street College of Education. She began her career at Temple Shaaray Tefila Nursery School, where she rose quickly to become head teacher of the three-year-olds’ classroom, and she has served as a mentor to new and aspiring directors through the Jewish Early Childhood Leadership Institute.
“I am so fortunate to have the opportunity to lead this warm and vibrant community of parents and educators, and I look forward to ensuring that we continue to provide excellent early childhood education and foster wonder and inquiry in our youngest students,” said Miriam. “Our commitment to our core beliefs will continue to create confident, compassionate, and curious learners who are ready for the next step in their educational journeys. With renewed spirit and growth, our school will remain a model of high-quality Jewish early childhood education.”
For more information about the Early Childhood Center at Stephen Wise Free Synagogue, visit our school online or contact us at ecc@swfs.org or 212-877-4050, ext. 231.
On January 26, the Early Childhood Center’s Winter Auction brought together the entire ECC community for a dazzling evening of support that raised more than $175,000 for the school.
This fundraiser closed the gap in the ECC’s operating budget to cover enhanced security, teacher development, teacher and specialist salaries, and more. Funds will go towards this year’s special project, a STEAM library for our students, featuring a light laboratory and mobile magnet wall.
“We are overwhelmed with deep gratitude by the generosity of our families,” said ECC Director Miriam Kalmar.
Auction committee co-chairs Megan Martin, Barrie Melllin, Jackie Stern, and Amy Wesley worked tirelessly over the past year to plan this event.
This year’s “ECC Pep Rally”-themed auction, complete with flip cup and a cheer written by our very own Cantor Dan Singer, featured more than 200 silent auction items — from special outings with teachers to gift cards from local businesses — donated by community members. A live auction offered such exclusive experiences as a catered Havdalah with Rabbi Ammiel Hirsch to a Hollywood getaway with a private tour of Paramount Studios.
Our auction may be over, but you can still support our Early Childhood Center. Please donate online or contact Miriam Kalmar at 212-877-4050, ext. 265, or mkalmar@swfs.org.
From December 20 to December 29, members of the Stephen Wise community explored Israel as part of our congregation’s annual mission. Led by Senior Rabbi Ammiel Hirsch and joined by Rabbi Rena Rifkin, director of our Religious School, participants experienced Israel from Tel Aviv to Jerusalem, to the mystical Galilee city of Safed and the Golan Heights, to the desert-top fortress of Masada and the Dead Sea. They held a b’nai mitzvah at the ancient site of Hazor, met Israeli soldiers, heard from Israeli journalists and political figures, and more.
Here, the Rosenstein/Eisenstat and Samton families reflect on a unique b’nai mitzvah experience in Northern Israel.
WE WOKE UP after our first night at Kfar Blum and rode the bus through the lush Hula Valley to Tel Hazor, an archaeological site containing layers of civilizations of the ancient city of Hazor (at least 5,000 years old) — and also the site of the Zoe Samton and Joshua Rosenstein’s b’nah mitzvah, led by Rabbis Hirsch and Rifkin. Zoe and Joshua wowed their fellow travelers and families with their Torah readings and dvrei torah. Jacob Silverstein, Hattie Saal, Katie D., Ethan Kozower, and Adam Varsa also read from the Torah. The Hula Valley is a migratory stop for birds and their calls echoed in the background. It was a very unique and special occasion for all of us.
From there it was off to the Golan Heights. We boarded the buses to Mt. Bental near the edge of the Syrian border. Lt. Col. Marco Moreno spoke and showed a video about Operation Good Neighbor, Israel’s humanitarian mission to aid civil-war-torn Syria by allowing casualties to enter Israel for medical treatment. Some of the injured are treated at the Galilee Medical Center in Nahariya, where we had just visited the day before. It was inspirational and a tribute to the decency and virtue of Israel, the IDF, and the Israeli people.
Mt. Bental overlooks Syria, including the path of the Syrian army during the 1973 Yom Kippur War. Unfortunately, it was raining and overcast at the top of the mountain, and we couldn’t see much of anything in the distance. We descended into a bunker that had been manned by Israelis prior to the war and where soldiers gave some of the first warnings of the oncoming invasion.
Then to the jeeps, more fun and more bouncy than the buses. Our caravan headed down the mountain, through an abandoned Syrian military post, past the rusting husks of tanks used in 1967 and 1973, and stopped along the way to look across the border fence with Syria. We drove to a U.N. border checkpoint, which wasn’t particularly intimidating. The remarkable testament to Israel and the Israelis is that notwithstanding the proximity of a border with a hostile enemy, on the Israeli side of the border lies a kibbutz.
We ended the afternoon with relaxation at Kibbutz Ein Zivan, where the kids made their own chocolate in a chocolate factory and some of the adults sampled Israeli wines at The Pelter Winery. The wine was good and so was the bread, and there did appear to be a few children who enjoyed the chocolate, especially their own gooey creations.
The day concluded with a fantastic celebration of the b’nai mitzvah under a tent. We feasted on grilled chicken and beef, sandwiches, hummus, and eggplant. We danced and sang with the three-man band and their guitar and bongo drums (and children’s drum circle) to traditional Israeli songs like “Hava Nagila” and “David Melech Yisrael,” and heard speeches from the families. This was the best b’nai mitzvah party we’d ever attended – joy and good feelings all around. It was an amazing and memorable day.
We are shocked and deeply saddened by the shooting Shabbat morning at the Tree of Life Synagogue in Pittsburgh. We grieve with the families of the deceased and pray for the speedy recovery of the wounded. We express our appreciation to the law enforcement and security forces who acted heroically to prevent an even greater tragedy.
We are deeply concerned about increasing polarization and disunity in our country, and worry about an intensifying atmosphere of intolerance. While we wait for more details about the Pittsburgh shooting, we note that anti-Semitic hate crimes have surged in the United States. We know from past tragedies that violent rhetoric leads to violent action. We call on Americans to repudiate intolerant words; they lead to intolerant deeds. We call on political leaders to work to unite Americans.
We are dismayed that the massacre occurred on Shabbat, a day of contemplation, prayer, and peace. We are appalled that the horrific anti-Semitic attack occurred during a bris, the celebration of new life. We will not succumb to fear, violence or intimidation.
We have been in touch with our security consultants. They have reiterated to us that our security posture is comprehensive and adequate. As you know, we have invested considerable resources in hardening our building in the past few years. There is no known threat against the Jewish community in New York City. Nonetheless, we will increase security presence in front of the synagogue building tomorrow and this week while we continue to consult with security professionals.
On, Sunday, October 28, our synagogue hosted a Kristallnacht concert, commemorating the night of broken glass in 1938, when violent words led to acts of extreme violence against Jews, synagogues and Jewish businesses that culminated in genocide. At the concert, we will renew our pledge never to forget and never to tolerate anti-Semitism in any form. During the concert, we will pause to recite the traditional mourner’s prayer in memory of those killed today as well as for those devoured by the Nazi beast. As a community, we expressed our solidarity with the Jews of the past and the present.
We pray for the day when brothers and sisters shall dwell in peace and none shall be afraid.
Dear congregants,
Judaism is a religion of potency and protest, demanding of us: “What have you done today to promote human dignity?” It teaches that when the atmosphere all around you is brutal, insensitive, degrading, dehumanizing – you are obligated to stand up and speak.
In this spirit, we are deeply troubled by recent immigration policies that are separating children from their parents. The images that have surfaced are profoundly disturbing, and the personal stories are deeply moving. As Jews we are summoned to fight for fairness and human dignity. This is our moment to stand for principle and make a difference.
To that end, I would like to draw your attention to, and urge your participation in, one or more of the following events.
With Stephen Wise Free Synagogue
- World Refugee Day Action – Wednesday, June 20, at 5:30 p.m.
- The Immigration and Refugees Task Force and dozens of refugee rights and faith based organizations will be rallying at Bryant Park at 5:30 p.m. and call to Stop the Refugee Ban, Save Asylum, Defend Temporary Protected Status (TPS) and Keep Children and Families Together. To join us meet outside of Stephen Wise at 5:10 p.m.
- End Family Separation NYC Rally and March – Saturday, June 30, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.
- Stephen Wise members will gather at 9:50 a.m. on the corner of Worth and Lafayette street before joining the rally and march at Foley Square.
- Stephen Wise members will gather at 9:50 a.m. on the corner of Worth and Lafayette street before joining the rally and march at Foley Square.
- Action Night – Tuesday, June 26, at 6:30 p.m.
- Join our Immigration and Refugees Task Force for an Action Night offering a number of concrete ways to take action on this issue and make posters in preparation for Saturday’s march.
Other Action Opportunities
- Mass mobilization at the Brownsville Federal Court in Texas, led by the ACLU – Thursday, June 28, at 11:00 a.m.
- Those interested in travelling to Texas can join the #FamiliesBelongTogether rally in Linear Park at 11 a.m.
- RSVP here or on Facebook and contact Natalie Montelongo at nmontelongo@aclu.org with questions.
In an extraordinary show of support, nearly 300 people gathered together for the 2018 Spring Benefit, raising more than $1 million for the synagogue.
Held at Manhattan’s Guastavino’s, the gala event honored Terry Kassel, Rhonda Steeg, and Jen Stone for their remarkable contributions to the global community. TONY Award winner Christine Ebersole, performed a medley of beloved show tunes in tribute of our honorees.
The crowd was also addressed by Emmy award winning journalist, Raina Seitel, Borough of Manhattan president, Gale Brewer, Stephen Wise Free Synagogue president, Alan Riffkin, and Rabbi Ammiel Hirsch.
The remarkable generosity of the congregation will enable Stephen Wise to have an even bigger impact on the local community and beyond.
Photos by Chris Herder Photography