Rabbi Samantha Natov
Rabbi Samantha Natov grew up in Dundas, Ontario. She holds a bachelor’s from McGill University and a master’s in musicology and ethnomusicology from the University of Virginia. Following her time as a cantorial soloist in Toronto, Rabbi Natov came to New York to earn her degree in sacred music from Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion. After working as a cantor at congregations in New Jersey and Brooklyn, she decided to become a rabbi. Rabbi Natov was ordained by HUC-JIR in 2015 and joined Stephen Wise Free Synagogue a few months later in July 2015. As associate rabbi at Stephen…
Recent Sermon
The Way Forward
“In some ways, this election demands us to ask similar questions to those we asked ourselves over the High Holy Days,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov on the Friday before the presidential election. “What is it to be a good human being? How do we best organize our society to reflect this? In this week’s parashah we find two starkly contrasting depictions of societal structures: the stories of Noah’s Ark and the Tower of Babel…”
Sermons
The Way Forward
November 1, 2024
“In some ways, this election demands us to ask similar questions to those we asked ourselves over the High Holy Days,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov on the Friday before the presidential election. “What is it to be a good human being? How do we best organize our society to reflect this? In this week’s parashah we find two starkly contrasting depictions of societal structures: the stories of Noah’s Ark and the Tower of Babel…”
Unveiled
October 18, 2024
“Imagine if suddenly the walls disappeared and we could see all around us,” Rabbi Samantha Natov challenges us on Sukkot. By emphasizing physical experiences, she says, the holiday “connects us to our spirituality and communal identity. We gain access to new knowledge, we feel the wind on our faces, time is unbound…”
God’s Presence
October 4, 2024
“Many of us wonder if it’s possible to feel God’s presence,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov, but divinity is everywhere — all around us. “Over these days of repentance and return, may we reconnect with our capacity to bring God’s light into the world through acts of forgiveness, tzedakah, lovingkindness, and compassion.”
The Path Home
October 2, 2024
“The entire Jewish community is carrying the crushing weight of our communal trauma,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov, but Rosh Hashanah brings new possibility of wholeness and return. “Turning towards Jewish community can restore a sense of belonging, trust and reciprocity.” The work of teshuvah isn’t easy and we can’t do it on our own: “It takes others to offer forgiveness, reflect on a shared past, and embrace a better future.”
Giving Brings Hope
September 20, 2024
This week’s Torah portion reminds us that sharing isn’t just about charity, but about tzedakah—justice, says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Giving tzedakah asserts our belief in the interconnectedness of all people. May our giving of tzedakah help shape a better future.”
Waiting
September 6, 2024
“Our shofar blast is a cry of grief,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov, as we enter Elul heartbroken over the brutal and senseless murder of the six hostages. May they rest in peace. While we wait with great trepidation for the future, “this time of year calls us to the present moment, where we seek repair, return and reconciliation,” she says. “With open hearts, may we reach for God, connect with our spiritual selves and, in doing so, find strength and renewal.”
Overcoming Fear
August 2, 2024
Most of the 12 spies Moses sent to scout the Promised Land returned in fear. But unlike the others, Joshua insisted, “We should go forth.” “His hope and faith enabled him to persevere with courage and strength,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “The Psalmists teach: ‘Be strong and of moral courage.’ Let us be reminded that we are strong, that we can rely on one another, and that we are not alone. We have come through the narrowest of passages before and will do so again.”
The Struggle Within
July 19, 2024
Hired to curse the Israelites, Balam approaches the Israelites’ encampment, but he unexpectedly utters a blessing… “Moments have the potential to go either way,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Inside all of us are competing inclinations.” Which one will win? The one you feed.
Above the Law
July 5, 2024
Infamous among those excluded from the census in the Book of Numbers was the power-hungry rebel Korah, who was swallowed up by the earth, and the children of Aaron. “Even the sons of the high priest are not above the law,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “It is as if the sheer weight of their inflated self-importance pulls them down. And there is a lesson in this…”
The Weight of Ethical Dilemmas
June 14, 2024
“Relationships have always been fraught with challenges with no simple ethical solutions,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. This week’s parashah introduces us to the Nazarites, ancient monks who sought to avoid these conflicts and achieve purity by living separately from others. “We might view this as a loss on their part. We are meant to engage in life fully, not hermetically seal ourselves away. The point isn’t to never go astray. It’s about how we come back.”
The Torah is a Mirror
May 31, 2024
“There are plenty of other texts in the Torah that we would also prefer to ignore, reject, explain away. As modern Jews,what do we do with sacred text that does not resonate with our values?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov as we look ahead to Shavuot. “We wrestle with Torah. It documents the best and worst of us. It shows us what we are capable of — and sides of ourselves we would prefer not to see…”
I Don’t Know
May 17, 2024
“How many of us say something and then curate and filter information to support our position – and prove we are right rather than diving into learning about facts and complexities of the situation in Israel and Gaza?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov. “In Berakhot we read: ‘Teach your tongue to say I do not know!’ And yet, it’s so hard to admit that we don’t know. It takes courage — but it is only when we make room for uncertainty that we open ourselves to truth…”
Ma Nishtanah
April 19, 2024
People are asking how this year’s Seder will be different, says Rabbi Samantha Natov: “How do we celebrate freedom with so many in captivity? How do we sing of redemption when there is war on every front?” she asks. “In this moment when we feel so broken, we need to sing every song. This is the Jewish way. We keep going. We make a Seder — a kind of protest against the upside-down world we find ourselves in.”
Breaking Negative Cycles
March 29, 2024
Sometimes anxiety amplifies our worries and we get caught in negative thought loops “that spin on and on,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “What does Judaism teach us about breaking these cycles?” she asks and answers…
A Sacred Call
March 22, 2024
Throughout the stories of Exodus that re revisit again and again and in this week’s parashah, we find a sacred call to answer, says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “What are we being called to do? Who needs our help? What internal spark are we ignoring?” Each of us must interpret God’s call — and determine our response…
Leap of Faith
February 9, 2024
Taking a leap of faith is challenging for humans, acknowledges Rabbi Samantha Natov. But “if we waited to understand before acting, we might never take a step,” she says. “It is only through living that we gain wisdom.”
The Power of Music
January 26, 2024
“This Shabbat, we honor the historical memory of the Israelites singing on the shores of freedom, dancing with timbrel in hand, finding strength in being in the moment together,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “When we find each other in song – things become simple, even if only for a moment. What divides us is stripped away.”
On Truth
January 12, 2024
“Judaism challenges us to live in truth —to live with authenticity, integrity and moral responsibility,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “We need courage and strength to bring our sense of what is true to light, even when confronting those who seem not to be listening.”
Hungry Ghosts
December 15, 2023
In this week’s parashah, Pharoah has a peculiar dream about cannibal cows. Rabbi Samantha Natov urges us to consider our own responses to unsatiated needs. “Jealousy, anger, hatred, and rage make demands of us — but feeding these emotions will never satisfy…”
A Bittersweet Thanksgiving
November 24, 2023
“Celebrating Thanksgiving may seem a bit tone-deaf when so many are suffering,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov, but “as Jews, we are often asked to celebrate the goodness of our lot at the same time we remember the many in need that we are obligated to help. We carry those opposing realities at the same time…”
Rebecca’s Question
November 17, 2023
“How do I continue living?” Rebecca asked in excruciating pain as her twins battled within her womb. We ask ourselves the same question today, while battling the trauma, loss and antisemitism around us. But “we cannot fight hate with hate,” answers Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Only light can pierce through darkness.”
Hope
October 27, 2023
“Many of us feel overwhelmed by the unending onslaught of terrible news and a sense of deep foreboding for what is yet to come,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov of the destruction and hatred rising up around us. But “our hope is not yet lost. It is 2,000 old… together we can choose life again and again.”
Both/And
September 29, 2023
“We are either rushing or resting. One or the other,” Rabbi Samantha Natov observes. But dwelling in our sukkahs, being both outdoors and indoors, teaches us to “dwell in contradiction,” she says. “Instead of running from one moment to another, we can strive to integrate peace into whatever moment we find ourselves in.”
Hayom
September 17, 2023
“Hayom, the sound of the shofar implores us to wake up,” says Rabbi Sam Natov. “This is the time to allow our hearts to break open. It is only when we are present to that which causes us pain that we can move with it and grow…”
Return Together
September 15, 2023
In an increasingly digital world, “we have flattened and simplified our interactions with one another and even, at times, our expectations for ourselves,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov, imagining a world where we always choose community, connection and life… On Erev Rosh Hashanah, she says: “Tonight, we engage in the work of teshuvah as a community. The energy of our prayers is exponentially enhanced by being together. We are spiritually enriched by each other’s presence.”
Blind Spots
August 11, 2023
Each day after we wake, “we ask God to open our eyes,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. What are we missing because we’re too busy looking at our phones or our feet? As we approach the High Holy Days, “may we open ourselves up to new avenues of perception.”
On Loving
July 28, 2023
“Loving can be challenging,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov — as evidenced by the internal strife that threatens to pull Israel apart. “May love guide us and reunite us.”
Blessings From Struggle
July 7, 2023
In this week’s parashah, Zelophehad’s five daughters win their appeal to Moses — and God — to inherit their late father’s land, blazing a new trail for all the daughters of Israel. “We can only imagine how this momentous event shifted their sense of who they were within society and what was possible for them,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “This struggle against injustice never ends — yet from struggle, blessings may come.”
The Truth Before Us
June 30, 2023
“It’s amazing how we can be so immersed in our own selves that we don’t see what’s right in front of us,” says Rabbi Sam Natov. In this week’s parashah, even Balam — a prophet — is unable to see the angel blocking his path until God opens his eyes. “To see means being humble enough to open ourselves to a different perspective.”
Counting Toward The Unknown
May 5, 2023
“We usually count up when we don’t know what to expect,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov as we mark off the 49 days of the Omer, the time between the second day of Passover and the start of Shavuot. “The rabbis, in their wisdom, had us count this way in order to embody the experience of the Israelites — walking into the unknown.” Who knows what our journeys will bring?
What Does It Mean To Be Holy?
April 28, 2023
Rabbi Samantha Natov turns to this week’s Parashat Kedoshim (Holiness Code) to answer this important question. The code “may at first glance seem to be hopping from topic to topic,” she says. “But if we look carefully we can see how these laws work together to implement boundaries that honor the dignity of each person, fostering healthy relationships.”
The Complacency of Silence
April 14, 2023
Rabbi Samantha Natov ponders why the high priest Aaron remained silent following the untimely death of his sons Nadav and Avihu. Amidst the rise in shootings and violence in our country, she asks, “What about our silence? When is our silence complicit in enabling tragedy?”
Do Androids Dream in Technicolor?
February 17, 2023
As artificial intelligence tools become more widely available, Rabbi Sam Natov thinks about the new technology from a Jewish perspective. “This is hardly the first time the ways we learn and communicate have changed, yet we still read Torah each week from the scroll,” she says. “What is lost when we look for the easy way?”
Freedom to Take the High Road
February 10, 2023
Have you been frustrated in a crowded supermarket? How did you choose to react? “We have the freedom to take the high road,” says Rabbi Sam Natov. “But freedom without responsibility means slavery to our basest impulses… Torah is our master code for living moral and ethical lives.”
The Fire Within
January 13, 2023
“In the face of internal resistance, how do we summon the strength to overcome all the fears and insecurities holding us back?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov. In this week’s parashah, “Even Moses, our people’s greatest leader, struggled with — and triumphed over — self-doubt…”
New Year’s Resolutions
December 23, 2022
“Do you ever find yourself making the same bad decisions again and again?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov. Judaism teaches us: “Change is gradual. It’s uncomfortable. But it’s also invigorating. And changing the world starts with us.”
The Power of a Dream
December 16, 2022
This week’s parashah begins with Joseph’s dream. But he must walk a long road before it becomes reality. “The Jewish story is fueled by the belief that our visionary dreams can find grounding in the future,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “The fulfillment of a great dream takes a long time — maybe even a lifetime, or beyond.”
Faith and Uncertainty
December 2, 2022
“How do you deal with uncertainty?” asks Rabbi Sam Natov. “We often expect the worst. Even after receiving God’s blessing, Jacob doesn’t trust fully” — and he offers God a bargain. “Yet we have always been a people of hope. Sometimes we choose to have faith.”
Looking Back…
November 11, 2022
“Unlike other species, humans have trouble living in the moment,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Sometimes we get stuck in the past when we need to keep moving, but sometimes we need to look back in order to learn how to move forward.”
Breaking the Cycle
October 21, 2022
“These last few weeks, Kanye West has peddled old vile antisemitic tropes,” says Rabbi Sam Natov. “There is no excuse or explanation for his hateful words. Trying to find one is a waste of time. We need to call out antisemitism any time we hear it. Every single time.”
Tzedakah, Joy and Wisdom
October 7, 2022
If you could invite anyone from history to dinner, how would you prepare? Rabbi Sam Natov ponders the practice of ushpizin and how preparing for imagined guests leads to mitzvot: “May our acts of tzedakah, hospitality and compassion lead to a season of spiritual uplift, gained wisdom and Joy.”
Primordial Light
September 27, 2022
“God created the world out of pure chaos,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov on Rosh Hashanah. “God said let there be light, and there was light. But a Midrash teaches that there was an even earlier primordial light…”
Counting Our Days
September 25, 2022
“We need to know our days to accept that we will only have so many of them,” ponders Rabbi Samantha Natov on Erev Rosh Hashanah. “Yet if we think that our one life is the whole enterprise, we’re missing the point. Our choices determine not just the shapes of our futures, but also what we leave behind…”
Change Takes Courage
September 17, 2022
“Change seems especially palpable this time of year,” says Rabbi Sam Natov. “Pursuing change opens us up to vulnerability, but there can be no growth without change. As we enter into these High Holy Days, may we be strengthened and encouraged by each other.”
What is Justice in 2022?
September 2, 2022
This week we read the famous line, “Tzedek, tzedek tirdof — justice, justice shall you pursue.” “We repeat our plea for justice as if crying out, ‘Pay attention! Wake up to injustice in the world,’” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “But in 2022, what does justice look like? So much of the world seems to be falling apart…”
Loving Ourselves
August 12, 2022
“Can we still be open to loving and nurturing ourselves when we feel we are missing the mark?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov. “It is a Jewish value to judge others favorably, to judge others with the assumption that they are people of merit. So why is it difficult at times to do the same for ourselves?”
The Power of a Question
July 15, 2022
During this time of division and anger, “how can find our way back to one another?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov. “We’ll have to ask difficult questions — and open ourselves to other points of view,” she says. “Our shared life experiences far outweigh our differences, even though they can seem impossible to bridge.”
An Incomplete Life
July 8, 2022
At the end of his life, Moses didn’t get to enter the Promised Land, the Torah tells us in this week’s parasha. “Most of us will never fully complete, never fully accomplish, never fully achieve all we set out for ourselves,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. But, she reminds us, our legacies don’t end with us: “Our hopes and dreams are carried forward.”
A Vacation
July 1, 2022
“In this time when we especially need a vacation,” says Rabbi Sam Natov, “even just to strengthen ourselves to go back and do the critical work of helping to repair this broken world, Jewish practices will carry us forward. They will strengthen and uplift us, so that we can strengthen and uplift others.”
Confronting Untruth
June 10, 2022
“Our sages teach that deceiving others deliberately is like ‘stealing people’s minds,’” says Rabbi Sam Natov. “When you lie, you steal someone’s right to the truth. You take away their ability to function in the real world. Your lie forces them to relate to something that is untrue, that never happened — and that changes reality.”
It Takes Courage
June 3, 2022
“In these days of crisis, as we still reel from one massacre, another one has already taken place,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “When our fears get the best of us, we may be tempted to retreat. It takes courage to stay invested, aligned and active — and that is at the heart of what it means to be a Jew.”
Reset, Renew
May 20, 2022
“The notion of a deliberate reset is an ancient Jewish concept, radical in its time, and still radical today,” says Rabbi Sam Natov. “In a city that never sleeps, movement is often our goal. When we pause, we can gain new insights about the meaning of our lives – we make space for a spiritual awakening.”
Finding Each Other Again
May 13, 2022
“Have you noticed that we are all feeling a little edgy right now?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov. “We’re tense, prickly and irritable, as if walking with elbows out wherever we go. This is why the Jewish value of community is so important — it connects us in a circle of faith, trust and ultimately: love.”
The Broken Matzah
April 15, 2022
As part of the Passover Seder, we break the matzah. “There is always one bigger and one smaller side, a jagged edge with messy and crumbling pieces,” say Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Just like life: things can be fine and then, chaos, brokenness, unevenness and uncertainty all at once. The Seder forces us to recognize that, though we were redeemed, our world is still broken.”
Under the Magnifying Glass
March 25, 2022
“We are often stripping a person down to one piece of themselves — one word, one act, one meme. So many of us are too quick to judge and we do not do enough to bring people back into the fold,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Judaism gives us a mechanism to share our lives with others: to see the fullness of the person in front of us, and for them to see us.”
We Are Still Here
March 18, 2022
“How can we celebrate while our brothers and sisters in Ukraine are fighting for survival?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov. “This week, I saw photos of Ukrainian Jews making hamantaschen, singing and reading the Megillah. It’s nothing short of a statement of resistance. They’re saying: ‘We are still here.’”
Cautionary Tales
March 11, 2022
“With the war raging in Ukraine, we are increasingly aware of how quickly things can change and how vulnerable we always are,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. We tell each other stories to cope — and to avoid repeating history. “On this Shabbat of Remembrance, we are told to both ‘remember’ and to ‘not forget.’”
Here I Am
March 4, 2022
“The Ukrainian people are saying ‘hineini’ — ‘here I am,’” says Rabbi Sam Natov. “People in neighboring countries are saying ‘hineini’ as they welcome refugees. Abraham, Jacob and Moses all said ‘hineini.’ And we, too, say ‘hineini’ by raising donations, joining together to rally, supporting Ukrainian businesses, and bearing witness to the experiences of the Ukrainian people.”
Superhuman
February 11, 2022
Just as the Olympic athletes take us away from everyday limitations, in this week’s parasha, we remember that “in their time, the priests were a source of great inspiration — yet they were just as human as anyone else,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “When you feel depleted or uninspired, remember that you have great strength within you — that the impossible is possible.”
The Torah of Freedom
January 28, 2022
“This week’s Torah portion begins with a long list of laws,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Laws can seem abstract, but rulings respond to how our lives unfold. As Jews, we are constantly in conversation with the Torah’s vision of how to create a moral society.”
What Carries Us
January 14, 2022
The ancient Israelites wandered the wilderness for 40 years, carrying the Holy Ark from place to place. “But it was not a burden,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov, “for the Ark carries those who carry it.” On this weekend of service, “may we, too, feel elevated and carried by the energy embodied in that moment of chesed.”
A Blessing for the New Year
December 31, 2021
“As we begin the secular new year, we find ourselves asking: Who should I be?” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Instead of asking who should I be in the coming year, we could ask: How can I better be with myself?” she continues, “The self I am now. Not the one I want to be. But who I am in each moment.”
The Wounded Lion Still Knows How to Roar
December 24, 2021
“We all have struggles, large and small, public or hidden, that we go through throughout our lifetimes. No one gets through life without tremendous loss,” says Rabbi Sam Natov as the COVID-19 cases have increased. “Yet we have the capacity for reaching inward for strength – even when it feels like we won’t have anything left.”
Blessings and Challenges
November 26, 2021
“On this Shabbat of Thanksgiving, we are grateful for our blessings and acknowledge the challenges that have made us who we are,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Just as water carves rock over time, the adversities we face shape us.”
Faith
November 5, 2021
“There are moments in life that feel so intensely awful that it seems as if they will go on forever,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. It’s in times like these when we may not see the whole picture. “Faith is not the belief that everything is going to be okay. Rather, faith is the belief that we, in every moment, can access a kernel of strength, of hope, of continuity.”
Finding Sanctuary
October 8, 2021
Mere weeks after Yom Kippur, many of us have already transgressed. “The midrash tells us that God created and destroyed 974 worlds before creating the world we know,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Just like Noah, we must leave things behind to start anew. But even wickedness survived the flood…”
Missing Out on Joy
September 17, 2021
“In the wake of Yom Kippur, we have cleared out the clutter of regret,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Sukkot gives us an opportunity to tap into joy” that we should be sure not to miss out on.
We Are Enough
September 6, 2021
“There is a kind of myth that we can hold onto balance for even more than a short time, but to be alive is to be in motion,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov this Erev Rosh Hashanah. “In prayer, we call to something infinite that unifies us beyond time and space. Tonight, we get to start again.”
That’s What Friends Are For
September 3, 2021
“What does a life of blessing look like? It’s easy to see that it’s the people in our lives who really matter,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “This week’s Torah portion reminds us that we have the power to choose blessing — to let people into our lives.”
Responding to Need
August 27, 2021
In the wake of an earthquake in Haiti and the Taliban’s takeover of Afghanistan, Rabbi Samantha Natov reflects on our duty to our fellow human beings: “We may be separated by our places of birth, and by the context of our life circumstances, but what connects us is far stronger. When we see a fellow human being suffering, and we are in a position of strength, the Jewish response is clear: we must help.” Give to our humanitarian aid fund by visiting swfs.org/aid.
Power Dynamics
August 13, 2021
“The Torah places heavy restrictions on people in positions of power to provide desperately needed checks and balances,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “In order to really take the pursuit of justice seriously, we need to internalize the fact that we are no more important than any other person. As we approach the High Holy Days, let us be honest with ourselves and use our power wisely.”
Through Grace
July 30, 2021
“Why do bad things happen to good people? Or good things to bad people?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Ultimately, we are born into circumstances that are not of our making. The Torah teaches that it is only through the grace of God that we experience good things.”
Our Words Matter
July 9, 2021
“I almost never make a promise. When I do, it’s only with absolute confidence that I can keep my word,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov, reflecting on this week’s parashah, in which Moses discusses the laws governing vows. “God said, ‘Let there be light…’ Words shape our world; may we weigh them with care.”
Who Is Left Out?
July 2, 2021
“The census in week’s parasha, Pinchas, is noteworthy because it mentions the names of people who would’ve been counted, but their actions disqualified them,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Whom do we leave out of our stories? Whom do we name and then discount? Who is forgotten?”
Blind Spots
June 25, 2021
“Sometimes things are right in front of us, but we don’t see them. It takes something to help us change our perspective,” says Rabbi Sam Natov. In this week’s Torah portion, an angel helps Balaam see what’s hidden from his view. “What personal ‘angel’ can we call upon for clarity, for honesty, for presence in the moment?”
Confronting Hate With Healing
May 28, 2021
“In the past days I have been hearing from people of all ages who are distraught at the barrage of ugly words written about Israel and Jews,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “How do we not collaborate with evil? By refusing to engage in a dialogue of hate. May we react as Moses did — not confronting hate with hate, but seeing it for what it is and working towards healing.”
Ready Or Not, Here I Come!
April 30, 2021
“Pressure to be perfect is not new. It’s biblical; it’s biblical. The priests and even their sacrifices had to be perfect,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. With all that pressure, “there are aspects of ourselves we learn to tuck away. But sometimes we need to stop hiding — and be found.”
Living With Uncertainty
April 16, 2021
This week’s Torah portion deals with leprosy — “and the quest to understand why people became afflicted,” says Rabbi Sam Natov. “In the face of uncertainty, how can we gain a sense of control? But a much better question is: what will do now that we know that we can be struck at any moment — how will we live?”
Working On Ourselves
April 3, 2021
“What would you need to move forward from mitzrayim — which means ‘narrowness,’ and is our word for Egypt?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov on this Shabbat and the last day of Passover. “Working on ourselves means we’ll be able to put our very best out into the world.”
Spiritual Nourishment
April 2, 2021
As we live through Passover in a plague of our own, Rabbi Samantha Natov says: “I think it’s more important than ever to ask the theological and existential questions we often push to the backs of our minds — and open ourselves to the wonder we ignore. May this season offer you spiritual nourishment.”
To Reemerge
March 26, 2021
“I think about moments in Jewish history of reemergence. The greatest of which is when the Israelites were freed from slavery,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. Going from slavery to freedom is a process, so our ancestors “had to shift their perception in order to find true liberation. All we can do is put one foot in front of the other towards that which tugs at our heart.”
The Moment of Becoming
March 12, 2021
During the Israelites’ 40-year journey through the desert “it’s the moment of becoming: of potential, of life unfolding,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Liminal space is where change happens. For us, perhaps this difficult time gives us an opportunity to contemplate how to create a new narrative. We can’t go back to where we were or who we were.”
Esau’s Cry
November 20, 2020
“I am haunted by the moment when Esau learns of all that transpired behind his back,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “This cry of Esau is heartbreaking. Because it is not just his cry. It’s all of us who have been taken advantage of, or are not seen,” but Jewish history teaches us about resilience when we’re faced with inequality and injustice when we act as God’s partner in tikkun olam.
What Comes Next?
October 23, 2020
“When I think about this current historical moment and these two biblical narratives of destruction, the story of the Tower of Babel feels particularly relevant,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “So many in positions of power are spending their time aggressively building their own towers, only looking at others for what they can do for them. So what comes next?”
Happiness in the Time of COVID
October 2, 2020
“We are told that Sukkot is z’man simchateinu — the time of our joy. But in many ways, this does not feel like a joyful time… So how do we stay hopeful and maybe even find joy in this time?” Rabbi Samantha Natov investigates how our sources can shed light on finding joy, wholeness and a sense of wellbeing.
Choosing Our Path
September 25, 2020
“This Shabbat Shuva is named for the words of the prophet Hosea: ‘Return, O Israel, to Adonai your God,’” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Between last Yom Kippur and now, some of us have been spiritually asleep. Together, this year, may we find our inner path that aligns with our deepest truths.”
Zero Waste
September 18, 2020
“We’d like to start fresh, but that is impossible,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “During these High Holy Days, we can learn from our mistakes and rebuild out of regret. Our regrets give us raw material to start with as we move towards a sense of wholeness.”
Bridging Past, Present and Future
September 11, 2020
“Today marks 19 years since 9/11 and, in ways, the pandemic has brought us closer to the memories of how we felt back in 2001,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Above all, the Torah teaches that we are in partnership with God and God remembers us. May we use this time to forgive others, ask for forgiveness, and forgive ourselves.”
Start Counting Again
August 14, 2020
“Time takes on a boundary of before and after COVID,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “We read in Psalm 90: ‘Teach us to number our days, that we may have a heart of wisdom.’ When we number our days, we reflect upon and absorb the significance of our experiences.”
The Stories We Tell
July 31, 2020
“How will you tell your story of this time?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Recounting our stories is no small affair. Although its general trajectory may not change, the act of retelling allows us to reshape its meaning, uncover new understandings — and look forward to the next chapter with a sense of hope.”
Get Organized!
July 17, 2020
“Our homes have become our gyms, schools, offices, theaters, restaurants and more,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Judaism teaches that now, at this moment of unprecedented chaos, is when we most need to get organized. When we put our thoughts in order, we gain a sense of composure. Ultimately, this work is spiritual as well.”
Breathe
July 10, 2020
“Elijah found God in a quiet moment after destruction and chaos,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Jewish history and Jewish beliefs compel us to not allow ourselves to become shrouded in despair. Rather, to persevere — to remain open, as our ancestors had — to walk through dark times holding up a torch of hope.”
Confronting Bias Within
June 12, 2020
In this week’s parashah, God rejects Miriam and Aaron’s bias against Moses’ dark-skinned Cushite wife. “The message is clear,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “We are equal before God, regardless of the color of our skin. We need to recognize our own racial biases and start the work of change.
May You Bless and Be Blessed
June 7, 2020
Rabbi Natov explores how we can offer the ancient blessings of our ancestors to each other — and act upon them to help restore balance to the world in a time of chaos and violence.
Who Are We Now?
May 23, 2020
As we begin the Book of Numbers this week, Rabbi Samantha Natov explores how we redefine who we are in this liminal space and how this moment in time offers a chance for growth and renewal.
It’s Your Fault
May 2, 2020
Rabbi Samantha Natov explores Judaism’s take on blame, delving into this week’s parashah and the episode of the scapegoat, over whom Aaron confessed all the Israelites’ iniquities before casting it away into the wilderness.
Answering The Call
April 25, 2020
Rabbi Samantha Natov explores Judaism’s views on compassion: how to be there for others without becoming overwhelmed ourselves.
A Crisis of Faith
April 11, 2020
On Shabbat morning during Passover, Rabbi Samantha Natov discussed Moses’ crisis of faith which paralleled that of the Israelites’, leading them to create the Golden Calf. “The first thing Moses says to God is: ‘Oh, please, let me behold Your presence.'” God lets Moses see His back as He passes by — a perfect metaphor for the experience of faith.
Building Resilience
April 9, 2020
On the morning of Passover and with spring in the air, Rabbi Samantha Natov spoke about how our history and practicing gratitude for even the smallest things helps us to be resilient in tough times like these.
A Season of Renewal
February 11, 2020
“May we begin this season for renewal with the inner strength to make the changes we need to.” Rabbi Samantha Natov inspires us to direct energy from Tisha B’Av, a time of communal mourning, towards meaningful personal growth.
Let Love Lead
January 17, 2020
Rabbi Samantha Natov recounts a particularly good day made so by cheerful people around her. “Our surroundings are the context within which we operate,” she says. “Imagine how your day-to-day interactions would change if you tried to let love and compassion lead.”
Where is the Outrage?
December 13, 2019
Outraged after the latest attack on Jews at a kosher marketplace in Jersey City this week, Rabbi Samantha Natov asks and answers: “What can we do about the rise in anti-Semitism? We need to fight it – on every level, in every place and with everything we have.”
How Do You Measure the Value of a Life?
November 8, 2019
“What would a magazine article say about my worth?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov. “Are we only as valuable as the amount of money we have?”
The Truth
October 25, 2019
“It may be that it is near impossible to agree on truth,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov, who challenges us: if truth is subjective, then why is it important for us to prioritize honesty?
Don’t Drop the Egg!
October 11, 2019
Rabbi Samantha Natov tells the story of a woman who imagined grandiose plans for a bright future and urges us to push ourselves to start taking the first steps toward change. “While our blueprint for change that we imagined over the High Holy Days can be a touchstone we return to for inspiration, strength and direction, we cannot simply reflect upon these plans; we need to put them into action.”
Remembering Home
September 29, 2019
Before we are born, we contain the knowledge of everything in the world,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov this Erev Rosh Hashanah. “Life, then, is a process of remembering. The best we can do is to strive to bring holiness into this dance of life as we heed the ancient call home. Let’s take these High Holy Days to remember who we once were and who we want to be.
Keeping the Covenant
September 27, 2019
Rabbi Samantha Natov reminds us of our collective responsibility laid out in the Torah to take care of our planet for future generations. “We are visitors who inherit what is given us for a short time and then we pass it on. And, as such, we are called to be responsible wardens of the earth, which belongs to God.”
Harnessing Our Impulses
September 20, 2019
Jewish sages refer to a constant battle between the yetzer hatov and the yetzer hara – our good and bad impulses. Rabbi Samantha Natov urges us to channel our more destructive drives during this season of renewal – while the gates of repentance are open.
Cultivating Love
August 16, 2019
Rabbi Samantha Natov discusses the importance of giving love and approaching life with a generous heart. “When we let love lead, we open the potential for deepening our connections with one another. By letting love guide our actions, we bring more holiness into the world.”
The Courage To Bring Change
July 26, 2019
“Sometimes problems seem too big, and we don’t think we can make a difference,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “But we have stories that can inspire us and guide us.” When the Israelites were approaching the Promised Land, a group of sisters challenged the system of how the land would be divided – and their efforts paid off. “They found a way to effect change, and so can we.”
An Uncluttered State of Mind
July 19, 2019
“Being surrounded by clutter and chaos is not good for us,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “The rabbis teach that an orderly home can expand a person’s heart. When we get rid of the clutter, we make room for the holy.”
The Pursuit of Happiness
July 12, 2019
Rabbi Samantha Natov explores the human desire for happiness and fulfillment, and examines Judaism’s take on what it means to feel “spiritually whole” and “connected.” She reminds us to be mindful and present and to practice gratitude, and demonstrates how fulfilling mitzvot can give us a sense of purpose.
Rekindling Our Compassion
July 5, 2019
This week a congregant and I were talking about reports of the heart breaking situation at holding camps for migrant children. She expressed how furious she was when she first heard about the separated families. Like many of us, she expressed her outrage by signing petitions, marching in rallies, contributing to various aid organizations and writing to her local representatives. She yelled on Facebook and Twitter “How could this be happening? How in our country, in America, which holds family ties as sacred?”
The Righteous Among Us
June 28, 2019
“Because there are so few righteous individuals, God intentionally spreads them out,” explains Rabbi Samantha Natov while discussing righteous acts described in the Torah. “Miracles happen every time a small act of kindness leads others to participate in that kindness and multiply the deed – and every moment presents an opportunity to make a choice that brings goodness into the world.”
Stronger Than Death
May 2, 2019
On Friday after Memorial Day and a recent personal loss, Rabbi Samantha Natov recalled the story of Yodea, the Angel of Losses, who spends all of his time digging for what we lose in our lives. “He reminds us that we’re all still in a relationship with a loved one who is no longer with us. As we search, with the light of our souls, we find strands left behind — and bind up their memories so they may live on through us.”
Strange Fire
March 29, 2019
In this week’s parasha, the sons of Aaron, Avihu and Nadav, are killed without warning after making an offering of fire to God. “It has puzzled scholars for millennia,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. “But maybe this story is supposed to function similarly to a modern horror film and allow us to ponder the transience of life and possibility of arbitrary violence from a safe distance.”
Perfectionism
February 15, 2019
“What does it mean for us to notice, without trying to erase or block out our imperfections?” asks Rabbi Samantha Natov, while inspiring us to embrace our most complete selves.
Restart
December 21, 2018
Ahead of 2019, Rabbi Samantha Natov encourages us to build habits to better ourselves, and use Shabbat as a way to periodically check on our spiritual progress.
The Day After Yom Kippur
September 21, 2018
In her sermon this Shabbat, Rabbi Samantha Natov reminds us to keep working towards spiritual growth after the High Holy Days:
“What happens the day after Yom Kippur? It’s as if we have a clean slate… Until a few hours, days, or weeks later. In some ways what happens between Yom Kippur and Rosh Hashanah is even more important. May we keep moving ahead towards our ideals with humility and compassion for ourselves and others.”
The Meaning of it All
September 14, 2018
“Think about how it feels to be in touch with our deepest truths. How does it feel to earnestly express feeling sorry, or to take in another’s heartfelt apology?” During the High Holy Days, Rabbi Samantha Natov encourages us to acknowledge our vulnerability and find meaning together as a community.
Seeking God
August 31, 2018
A Practice for Change
July 6, 2018
“In order to work towards meaningful change, we must be able to subdue our more destructive impulses.” Rabbi Samantha Natov explains: “Judaism teaches us to look at incorporating change into our lives as a personal practice. It is a process.”
Fear
June 8, 2018
Rabbi Samantha Natov looks to teachings from the Torah, Talmud, and midrash for to limit fear’s role in guiding important choices.
Remembering
May 25, 2018
“Memory is anything but static.” As Memorial Day approaches, Rabbi Samantha Natov celebrates the Jewish practice of active remembrance.
What Gets in Our Way?
January 12, 2018
Rabbi Samantha Natov encourages us to face our insecurities and have faith that “others will care about us and see the good in what we have to offer.”
Compassion
December 22, 2017
Rabbi Samantha Natov inspires us to be more compassionate to others and ourselves this holiday season.
The Road to Change
October 13, 2017
Rabbi Samantha Natov shares lessons from Judaism on implementing lasting change in our lives. “We need to believe in the future in order to build the future.”
What Shall We Do With Our Time?
September 22, 2017
Rabbi Samantha Natov reminds us that “the High Holy Days are opportunities for renewed clarity and strength of purpose for all of the days that follow.”
Look Within
August 25, 2017
The act of reflecting inwardly is woven into the very fabric of Jewish observance during this time of the year.” Rabbi Samantha Natov inspires us to look inward in the days leading up to the High Holy Days.
Shame
August 11, 2017
“Shame has more power in our lives than many of us realize,” says Rabbi Samantha Natov. When we understand shame as vulnerability, “it becomes about being brave and courageous, rather than timid and intimidated.”
Challenging Texts
July 21, 2017
Rabbi Samantha Natov asks: What do we do with a narrative that does not resonate with our values? “If we skip over what is most violent, painful, or repulsive to us, we are denying the truth of human experience.”
Cultivating Hope
June 30, 2017
Rabbi Samantha Natov calls on us to “exercise hope” by embracing the Jewish values of community, positive thinking, and social justice.
Where Are You?
June 23, 2017
Rabbi Samantha Natov asks us core questions for self-reflection. “When we move from one season to another, there is an organic opportunity to look inward, recalibrate, and take stock.”
Shelter
May 26, 2017
Showcasing our men’s shelter, Rabbi Samantha Natov considers the Jewish mandate to help those in need and shares comments from recent shelter volunteers, including: “It’s the easiest volunteer job ever with the most impact: all I’m doing is sleeping, and yet I am enabling the shelter to stay open.”
What Will You Do With Your Freedom?
March 2, 2017
“What privilege do we have that we can leverage on behalf of the persecuted and downtrodden?”
Rabbi Samantha Natov looks to our biblical forbearers and the comedy of Louis C.K. as she challenges our congregation to continue the Jewish tradition of doing good deeds.
Truth
February 17, 2017
“In these times of ‘alternative facts’ and fake news, we have the Torah, which offers us a pathway for ethical and moral coexistence,” Rabbi Samantha Natov says in this sermon.
Small Acts of Kindness
December 23, 2016
This Hanukkah, Rabbi Samantha Natov reminds us that we each have the potential bring light into the world.
Words of Love
August 19, 2016
Breaking the Glass Ceiling
July 29, 2016
What Elie Wiesel Taught Us
July 8, 2016
Remember Who You Are
May 27, 2016
The Power of Naming
January 1, 2016